FORMER COMMITMENT-PHOBE TURNED INTIMACY EXPERT
This is how I found the power of my own vulnerability and emotions. I’ve dedicated the last decade to my own healing and studying femininity, sacred sexuality, somatic trauma healing with Gabor Mate, Authentic Relating Training, Energy Coaching, tarot, embodiment and sensual movement all around the world.
Now, I’m here to guide and support you in breaking free from your own limitations and embracing a life of authenticity and self-expression, so you too can create the intimacy you long for!
In my early 20s, I realized it was impossible for me to commit to any romantic relationship, and my desperate search for answers to understand why, led me to dive deep into studying the worlds of conscious communication, women’s empowerment, sex, trauma healing, and spirituality.
Through this exploration, I discovered that my phobia was not just a surface-level issue but rather deeply rooted in fears of vulnerability and rejection.
These fears were barriers that kept me from having the very thing I wanted- to experience deep connection and feel truly seen in all of my relationships.
Private Coaching
A personalized experience for the woman who’s ready to live her truth with ease and confidence and putting herself first! We'll work on transfroming the limitations that block your self-expression while cultivating deeper intimacy in your personal relationships.
Retreats
Unplug and totally immerse yourself in a sanctuary of self-discovery and renewal held by a community, Tanai, and supporting embodiment facilitators.
Group Programs
Step into your fullest expression alongside a group of sisters over the course of the year to connect and grow with in loving support and accountability.
Listen in every week as I share the journey that led me to discover what lay behind my fear of commitment and bring along guest teachers, coaches, and experts to share guidance on how to foster deeper self-love and create the intimacy you crave in your relationships.
“My communication has been so much better. I’m able to say when something is affecting me or not working for me. It’s hard for me to feel my feelings, so being able to say how I’m feeling and knowing my partner not only wants to hear it, but appreciates it, is so cool.
It’s scary for me to hear people say no, but the more comfortable I get, I just feel more full. I realize now that it’s ok if they don’t say what I want, most of the time they react worse in my imagination. My reactions don’t have to be perfect for anyone, they just have to be perfect for me.”
-Ariella
“The work I’ve done with Tanai has transformed me in ways I could never have imagined. When we met, I felt seriously stuck, as if I were on a hamster wheel I could never escape. Through our work, I discovered that people pleasing tendencies dictated nearly all of my actions. All of the work I’ve done with Tanai has touched places of my soul that therapy hasn’t been able to. All of this work on people pleasing has lead to: speaking up more in the workplace, asking for what I actually want out of dating experiences, a sharp decrease in anxiety from letting myself feel the negative feelings when they arise, more access to the fiery, funny side of my personality, motivation to change my path to one that is more suited to me, and a lightness that I haven’t experienced in years.”
-Erica
I’m more connected with my intuition and learning to trust that, without need for logic or explanations. I feel grateful now for what triggers me or makes me uncomfortable because I see it as an opportunity to get to know myself better, open my heart, express what is coming up, let go of what no longer serves me and feel more at peace. I have more clarity to see and accept reality as it is, including the painful and difficult truths, instead of resisting or rationalizing to no end. I have more self acceptance and compassion for exactly how I show up in each moment.
-Casey
“I learned to create healthy boundaries with my parents, coworkers, friends, and husband and to show up for myself and not feel guilty about it! I learned to take responsibility for the things I want and make them happen out of LOVE not obligation. In such a short amount of time I was able to make giant LEAPS in my personal growth. I loved everything about Tanai and her coaching methods. I have been in and out of therapy for years and this experience has been life changing and I mean that with all sincerity!”
-Susie